Valentine’s Day, the most romantic holiday of them all, is coming up, and it can be tough for couples in long-distance relationships. You want to be together, but you’re miles apart. However, to make the most of this special day, check out our long-distance Valentine’s Day ideas. Use them to make the celebration of love special and unforgettable.
Why Is It Important to Make an Effort in an LDR?
Let’s be honest, it’s difficult to be separated from someone you care about. Spending time together, drinking coffee, having long conversations, and sharing a kiss or two are important parts of any relationship. However, there are many reasons why people move away from their loved ones.
Maybe you two used to be in the same country, but you’ve got an employment opportunity in a different location, and you’ve made the appropriate career decision to relocate. Then again, maybe you met while studying abroad and had to move after college pursuing some employment opportunities across the world.
Whatever the reason might be, if you want the relationship to work, you need to put some effort into it. Absence might make hearts grow fonder, but the distance can take its toll on both you and your partner. That’s why on days like February the 14th, when everything is about love, you should go the extra mile in showing your partner that you care about them. To do so, use one (or a few) long-distance relationship Valentine’s day ideas and blow your loved one’s mind.
Pick a Thoughtful and Heartfelt Gift That Has a Meaning to Both of You
When it comes to finding the perfect gift for a loved one, sometimes it can be tough to find something that is both heartfelt and meaningful. However, with a little bit of thought, it is definitely possible to find something that will make your partner feel special and appreciated.
A great option is to choose a gift that is personalized specifically for them. This could be anything from a custom-made piece of jewelry to a framed photo with a special inscription. Whatever you choose, make sure that it is something that reflects the personality of the person you are giving it to. Remember, it doesn’t matter that you live in another country, your partner is still the same person you fell in love with. So you know them the best, and finding the perfect gift won’t be that difficult.
Another great idea is to go with a traditional gift that has a personal touch. For example, since you are celebrating Valentine’s day long-distance style, you could get them some chocolates (and flowers).
There is no limit to what can be personalized as a gift for someone. You could even opt to give someone the experience of having something done for them! For example, you might give them the gift of having a special lunch at their favorite restaurant. Or, you could give them the gift of having their house cleaned to perfection by professionals.
The possibilities are endless when it comes to finding personalized gifts for others. The only limit really is your own imagination! Just remember, plan your gifts with distance in mind since your loved one lives in another country.
Channel Your Inner Shakespeare and Write a Love Letter or a Card
Let’s say you moved to Paris (or your partner did), and you want to reach the romance levels the city exudes – writing a love letter or a card is a great way to do so. When looking for Valentine’s ideas for a long-distance relationship, this will be the one to beat. However, since not all of us are as talented as Shakespeare – here are some tips on how to express your gratitude in a love letter or a card:
There are many different types of cards available, so you should be able to find one that is perfect for the occasion. You may want to choose a card that is specifically for expressing gratitude or love.
Adding a personal message makes the card more special. You can express your gratitude and love in your own words.
Adding your signature makes the card even more special. It shows that you took the time to personally select the card and write a message.
If possible, it’s nice to include a small snapshot of yourself. This way, your loved ones will be able to remember what you look like when they read your personal message.
Adding the date to your personal message shows that you took time out of your day to think about them and send them a card for this special occasion. It also shows that you are grateful or in love with this person every day, not just on one specific day.
You can add some sort of gift or thoughtfully selected item. Perhaps you’d like to include a flower with the card, or maybe something else they can display in their home. If they are into cooking, for example, they might enjoy receiving a few tea bags that have been personalized with messages on them! You can find many interesting items to accompany your card.
It’s a good idea to use nice paper and an envelope so that your loved ones will enjoy holding onto this special memento for years to come. It’s also important that you write with a pen or marker that will not fade after a few weeks.
Your loved ones will be able to enjoy your gratitude and love for longer if you mail them the card early enough so that it arrives before this special occasion.
Playlist With Songs That Reminds You of Them Can Tell a Lot About Your Feelings
Famous American poet Henry Wadsworth Longfellow wrote, “music is the universal language of mankind,” so you should try to communicate your emotions through it. When making a playlist for a loved one, it’s important to keep their personality and interests in mind. For example, if your loved one is always on the go, you might want to include upbeat songs that will make them feel energetic. If they’re romantic at heart, you might want to include love songs.
When putting together a playlist, it’s also important to keep in mind what kind of mood you want to portray. Since this is a playlist made for a day that celebrates love, try to include as many love songs as possible.
Finally, it’s important to keep your loved one’s music preferences in mind. For example, if they have a particular artist they adore, consider including some of their songs on the playlist. By keeping these things in mind as you make the playlist, you will be able to create a custom gift that is sure to make your loved one smile.
Since creating a playlist is a delicate process, check out the video below if you need some tips on how to do it like a pro.
Even if Moving Overseas Separated You, There Are Still Ways to Participate in Activities Together
Moving abroad alone without your partner is not an ideal situation. However, you can still spend some quality time together, you just have to get creative. You might have moved to Canada, or you have relocated halfway across the world to New Zealand. The same thing goes – take some time to organize your activities. Just keep in mind the time difference.
If you are stuck without Valentine’s day ideas for long-distance relationships, ask yourself – how do you keep in touch with friends? Those activities (although not romantic) can also be done with your partner. Just throw in some candles and heart-shaped glasses, and you’ll have an unforgettable evening with a person you love.
Have a Video Call and Grab a Bite Together
When moving internationally, time zones might be a huge problem for couples. However, once you get over the cultural shock of living in a new place and start adjusting to it, calculating time zones won’t be such a bother.
That being said, you and your partner can set a time and grab a bite, no matter if it is lunch, brunch, or dinner. As long as you are spending time together, does it really matter? So, let’s assume that you have all the necessary ingredients, tools, and equipment. Here’s how to create a perfect celebration that includes a tasty meal:
- Begin by creating a cozy eating area in your home. Decorate the space with candles, flowers, and place settings.
- Next, prepare your meal (we hope you remembered to pack knives when moving). Be sure to choose a recipe that is both romantic and easy to make.
- Once your meal is ready, set the table and light the candles. Also, if one of the things you kept when moving were fancy wine glasses, unpack them and pour some alcohol. Then, when the mood is set, take your date for a spin!
- Finally, enjoy your delicious meal and spend some quality time together.
Follow these steps, and you will have your date swooning in no time!
Get Physical! Organize an At-Home Workout Session
Suppose you were under a lot of moving stress because of different documents needed to travel abroad (or your partner was), and you took on working out as a stress relief. You can take that new hobby and use it as a way to bond with your partner. Because sharing what you like can only strengthen your relationship.
So let’s get into it – One way to make your home workout more fun is by using different exercises. You can also listen to music while you’re working out. And if you like to stay updated with both of your favorite shows, there is a technique that allows you to watch TV and exercise at the same time. It’s called “TV crunches.” The way it works: You sit on the sofa and bend over as if you were having a three-point conversation with the television set.
If both you and your partner are competitive by nature, this can be a perfect way to spend Valentine’s day and enjoy some healthy workout sessions. Furthermore, if you resisted online shopping during the corona pandemic and now you don’t have home workout equipment check out a video below. It will show you all the right exercises.
Use Technology to Your Advantage and Set Up Some Fun Surprises for the Loved One
Whether you moved to Spain or decided to try your luck in Australia, technology will help you keep in touch with your partner. Nowadays, a stable internet connection is more than available to many. So all you need to do is go online, and the world of opportunities will open up, how you’ll use it is only limited by your imagination.
Learn Together by Taking a Virtual Museum Tour
You might not be at the same place at the moment, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t learn together and travel virtually. There are a number of popular virtual museum tours that people can take to learn more about different museums all around the world.
One of the most popular is the British Museum tour, which gives people a virtual tour of the museum and its exhibits. This tour is available on the British Museum website and includes videos and images of the exhibits, as well as descriptions of them, so even if you haven’t moved to the UK, it will feel like you did.
Another popular virtual museum tour is the Metropolitan Museum of Art tour. This tour is also available on the museum’s website and includes videos and images of its exhibits, as well as descriptions of them. The Metropolitan Museum of Art is one of the largest art museums in the United States, so its tour is a great way for people to learn more about its exhibits.
Lastly, the Louvre museum tour is another virtual museum tour that people can take. This tour is available on the museum’s website, and it also includes videos and images of its exhibits. The Louvre is one of the largest museums in the world, so it has a number of different exhibits for people to learn more about. Check out the video below just to get a glimpse of what happens in one of the largest museums in the world.
Channel Your Inner Gamer With by Playing Online Games
Video games can provide hours of entertainment for couples, no matter if they live together or half a world apart. If you and your partner enjoy this form of entertainment, online gaming possibilities are almost endless.
However, to help you with the search for the perfect game, we created the list of some of the most popular ones that you can play with your loved one:
- Battlegrounds – a mobile game for all that enjoy thrilling shooting adventures,
- Houseparty – a game where you can compete in trivia and drawing,
- Mario Kart – if you like classics, this one is just up your alley.
Watching Movies Is One of the Best Ways to Spend Long-Distance Valentine’s Day
Netflix and chill is still possible (in a way) when you are not at the same place as your partner. And even though nothing can replace quality time spent together, the next best thing is watching the same movie at the same time while being in your own home. However, there are a few things you can do to create a romantic and unforgettable movie night, and you will need:
- A comfortable place to watch the movie,
- Popcorn or other snacks,
- Soft drinks or other drinks.
If you need some recommendations for romantic movies (cause it is a romantic day and all that jazz), consider watching Pretty Woman, Love Actually, or 10 Things I Hate About You.
Make Plans and Ensure This Is the Last Holiday You Are Spending Apart
The distance can be overwhelming. However, you can do something about it. After you finish with the romantic portion of the night, have an honest conversation about your future. You won’t be the first person to move to another country for love. That’s why, put all cards on the table. Talk about concrete things like hiring an international moving company, preparing for shipping overseas, and all the changes that come with the move.
If you make solid plans, like contacting an overseas moving company and asking for a quote for overseas shipping services as well as packing ones, there will be something tangible to look forward to. You can also start thinking about a new job, whether you’ll live together or not. This conversation will ensure that the next Valentine’s you celebrate is not a long-distance one. And that’s a great thing to await with pleasure.
